
Photo taken by me, Christmas day 2009, from my parent's porch.
Almost no editing was done to the image.
Last October, I was lucky enough to get to listen to Dr. Bruce Bickel discuss character-based leadership - how to find it, how to develop it, and how to recognize it. One of the points that he made on effective leadership was something that has stuck with me and continues to stick with me. And, given its relevance to recent times, I felt it appropriate to share with you all. Before you run off, I promise this is wedding-related - mostly.
You see, in life we often make promises to ourselves. Set goals. Seek results. The coming of a new year is the most well-known time for such goodness. Brides too, are some of the most guilty of these actions. We mean well - we really do. But, when push comes to shove, it is 9 times out of 10 that those resolutions get pushed aside. Work gets in the way. Or illness. Or school. Or some other time constraint. By March we have all but forgotten what we set out to do.
Bickel's breakdown is something that I think is important. You must stop and remind yourself that goals don't happen overnight. So, next time you eat a twinkie, don't throw your hands up and say that all is lost - just remind yourself that with every one step back you can take two steps forward. Take a deep breath, and think of this:
thoughts become your words
words become your actions
actions become your habits
habits become your character
character becomes your destiny
You, my friend, are in charge of your destiny. And, it all begins with the way you think of it. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.